There is not a formula for the way that God heals. There's not a timetable.
Because life doesn't always happen according to a timetable or calendar. And feelings can't be scheduled.
... why I like timetables, because they make sure I don't get lost in time.
I have a timetable, but no routine.
But I have learned that you can't just create your own timetable and will it to come true.
God doesn't work on our timetable. He has a plan that He will execute perfectly and for the highest, greatest good of all, and for His ultimate glory.