Alain de Botton Good Quotations

Virtue is its own reward. We only invented concepts like heaven and hell to describe how we feel. We don't feel good doing bad and it's nice to help someone.

One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.

Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own - but that we could never have described on our own.

A 'good job' can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.

Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.

Most good thinking has its origin in fear.

It is this idea 'decency' should be attached to wealth -and 'indecency'' to poverty - that forms the core of one strand of skeptical complaint against the modern status-ideal. Why should failure to make money be taken as a sign of an unconditionally flawed human being rather than of a fiasco in one particular area if the far larger, more multifaceted, project of leading a good life? Why should both wealth and poverty be read as the predominant guides to an individual's morals ?

If optimism is important, it's because many outcomes are determined by how much of it we bring to the task. It is an important ingredient of success. This flies in the face of the elite view that talent is the primary requirement of a good life, but in many cases the difference between success and failure is determined by nothing more than our sense of what is possible and the energy we can muster to convince others of our due. We might be doomed not by a lack of skill, but by an absence of hope!