When you are fully conscious, drama does not come into your life anymore.
One way to become aware many times during the day is to take a conscious breath. Doing so breaks the stream of thinking.
Become conscious of being conscious.
...the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy.
Become intensely conscious of the present moment.
You can not have an argument with a fully conscious person.
True change happens within, not without. Find the Now within. Everybody you come in contact with will be touched by your presence and affected by the peace that you emanate, whether they are conscious of it or not.