Ian Mcewan Children Quotations

The moment you have children and a mortgage you want things to work; you're locked into the human project and you want it to flourish.

I was an intimate sort of child who never spoke up in groups. I preferred close friends.

For children, childhood is timeless. It is always the present. Everything is in the present tense. Of course, they have memories. Of course, time shifts a little for them and Christmas comes round in the end. But they don't feel it. Today is what they feel, and when they say 'When I grow up,' there is always an edge of disbelief - how could they ever be other than what they are?

It was common enough, to see so much death and want a child. Common, therefore human, and he wanted it all the more. When the wounded were screaming, you dreamed of sharing a little house somewhere, of an ordinary life, a family line, connection.

Looking after children is one of the ways of looking after yourself.

It was not generally realized that what children mostly wanted was to be left alone.

Watching him during the first several minutes of his delivery, Cecilia felt a pleasant sinking sensation in her stomach as she contemplated how deliciously self-destructive it would be, almost erotic, to be married to a man so nearly handsome, so hugely rich, so unfathomably stupid. He would fill her with his big-faced children, all of them loud, boneheaded boys with a passion for guns and football and aeroplanes.

This is the pain-pleasure of having newly adult children; they're innocent and ruthless in forgetting their sweet old dependence.