I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.
Change yourself - you are in control.
When you surrender completely to God, as the only truth worth having, you find yourself in service of all that exists. It becomes your joy and recreation. You never tire of serving others.
Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding. The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. You must be the change you wish to see in the world.
Find yourself by losing yourself for others.
"Do not worry in the least about yourself, leave all worry to God" this appears to be the commandment in all religions.
Start changing yourself if you want to change the life around you.