Be a witness of sex too. Don't be the controller of it. Don't try to forcibly bring it under control, remain a witness of it too. Just as you are a witness of everything else, remain a witness of sex too.
Learn to become more of a witness, create more watchfulness. Let each act, each thought, be seen.
The whole search of religion is for that witness: how to find that which is real.
You are the witness, to whom things happen but who remains a witness. Witnessing is the art of nonidentification, and nonidentification is all. Nonidentification is all there is to meditation. It is the whole meditation.
Anger will come and go and the watcher abides. Sadness comes and passes by and the witness remains