Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining - it bores everybody else, does you no good and doesn't solve any problems!
All one needs to do is read - books, magazines, research the Internet - and pay attention to the influencers in their lives to discover the myriad people of strong moral character who have and still are making positive, meaningful contributions and differences in our world.
You cannot make it as a wandering generality. You must become a meaningful specific.
You don't drown by falling in water. You only drown if you stay there.
The great majority of people are “wandering generalities” rather than “meaningful specifics”. The fact is that you can't bit a target that you can't see. If you don't know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else. You have to have goals.
Don’t become a wandering generality. Be a meaningful specific.
Most of us would be upset if we were accused of being "silly." But the word "silly" comes from the old English word "selig," and its literal definition is "to be blessed, happy, healthy and prosperous."